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#11
09-28-2009, 06:25 PM
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I'm sorry, but your dad sounds like a real jerk.

I really hope that you find someone who appreciates your hard work and accepts you for who you are. And you are by no means lazy so just ignore him, and network as much as you can.

Best of luck, dear.
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#12
12-06-2009, 02:17 AM
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No I am not lazy! I have helped my dad for quite a long time, in fact I help him because he works independently and he needs me to interpret for him. As a matter of fact not that it worries you, but two months ago we had a job where he charged $1,600.00, we spent $759.00 or about there on material, my mother and I agreed it would be fair that the profit be split in half, I had to carry 50 bags that weighed 80 pounds not once but three times, loading, unloading, and then putting them inside the concrete mixer, and guess what I only got a miserable $120.00 for that. Not to mention I helped him do other things. I mean that annoyed me and it pssd me off! Then he justifies himself by saying that based on living expenses that's all I earned! Before that we had another job, I did most of the dirty work and never made more that $100.00, he still justified himself with charging me living expenses, in a period of two months he charged me for 4 different water bills. I think I can complain, before you say someone is lazy I suggest you ask more of their situation. I apologize if this sounds rude, it is not my intention, however based on my situation I feel like I am enslaved to do so many unnecessary things and that I have to confront unnecessary stresses.

Thank you for your advice DreamBaybeh, I appreciate your goodwill and advice, I will definitely look for other means to support myself in the mean time.
Well I'm back..and I apologize for my rude behavior..
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12-06-2009, 02:29 AM
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Yo Ceaser where you stay at in Dallas? Pm me if you want
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12-06-2009, 03:09 AM
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my suggestion is go around look for job that nobody wants...then u try apply it. who cares if its picking up trashes in the street. but thats just for ur starting point...i kno once u enter 18hood...u gonna be treated like adult, believe me some of us somehow have the same situation like u, even worst..so its better if you can find a job...labor job, anything...how?pray n keep looking n trying..i cant say much bcuz everythng is everything is compelety different. if it were to happened, ur dad kicked u out..go to ur best friend or ur other relative...if u dont have one..go to local community college find roomate wanted sign..find room for sharing or something for cheap(of course u gonna need money)...but, as long as u willing to sweat..u'll find one..just be patient n be strong..collecting recycle is always good while u lookin for job...use bus, if hard..use those scooters, i dont kno about ur state but mine is u can ride without license..the low cc one....oh try to open bank accnt. its always good to save money..cheer up
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#15
12-06-2009, 12:50 PM
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i go thru the same thing my dad never threatened to kick me out but his wife is a bitch and she hates me so it makes it very uncomfortable to be there lately i struggle to pay rent at my Lil studio i got internet and cable and no one bothers me but all i do is struggle to pay my rent can't wait for my dream to come true so i can show everyone including my wicked step mom what i can truly due
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