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07-20-2010, 07:50 PM
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Hey I want to get married
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Hey I want to get married
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07-21-2010, 05:13 AM
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Another one goes by and I'm still stuck in this rut.
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07-21-2010, 04:51 PM
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Same here.

Hopefully soon because I refuse to have anchor babies.
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07-21-2010, 07:59 PM
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Same here.

Hopefully soon because I refuse to have anchor babies.
Lol. Me too. I don't wanna become a welfare immy.
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lol girls in HS wanted me to be their baby daddy. LOL HELL NO. seriously why have a kid at ages 18 - 25? i never understood why anyone would do that, I'm starting to think it just happens :\. That probably didn't make any sense at all, deal with it, my teachers did LOL.
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07-22-2010, 12:08 AM
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lol girls in HS wanted me to be their baby daddy. LOL HELL NO. seriously why have a kid at ages 18 - 25? i never understood why anyone would do that, I'm starting to think it just happens :\. That probably didn't make any sense at all, deal with it, my teachers did LOL.
Hahaha. I totally get what you're saying, but there is a huge difference between being someone's "baby daddy" and being married. Just because you get married does NOT mean you must have kids. Besides, just being someone's "baby daddy" would not help you get legalized in any way, shape, or form.
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Hahaha. I totally get what you're saying, but there is a huge difference between being someone's "baby daddy" and being married. Just because you get married does NOT mean you must have kids. Besides, just being someone's "baby daddy" would not help you get legalized in any way, shape, or form.
Very true, my cousin did follow up through and had a beautiful daughter about 2 1/2 years ago, where is he now? back in Venezuela..
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07-22-2010, 02:52 PM
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LOL Neskrov, Stars and Hef107 you guys are so wrong for that but I undertand where you're coming from, heck I wish I'd met and genuinely fallen in love with someone and gotten married, if he happens to be a citizen then this "situation" I'm in would at least be a closed chapter, but that's not the case for me. Those that have supportive spouses on this thread are so lucky, your spouses not only accepted you despite your situation (some people run in the other direction), they also helped you/are helping you get your status in order, congratulations are definitely in order.
It was just a joke, I am currently dating a USC citizen and have for about a year and a half. We are happy, he has accepted me, and we have plans for our future together. However, I refuse to have kids until I have my status fixed. I don't want to risk my family being torn apart or have my kids wait months-years while mommy gets her status fixed in Juarez. It would not only be an additional stressor on my future spouse but on our kids.

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lol girls in HS wanted me to be their baby daddy. LOL HELL NO. seriously why have a kid at ages 18 - 25? i never understood why anyone would do that, I'm starting to think it just happens :\. That probably didn't make any sense at all, deal with it, my teachers did LOL.
I am 26, so according to you I can have kids now. I think that kids just happens, if you really stop to think about it, are you ever mentally prepared for kids?

I agree with you, Hef107, that would be the biggest fear come true.
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It was just a joke, I am currently dating a USC citizen and have for about a year and a half. We are happy, he has accepted me, and we have plans for our future together. However, I refuse to have kids until I have my status fixed. I don't want to risk my family being torn apart or have my kids wait months-years while mommy gets her status fixed in Juarez. It would not only be an additional stressor on my future spouse but on our kids.



I am 26, so according to you I can have kids now. I think that kids just happens, if you really stop to think about it, are you ever mentally prepared for kids?

I agree with you, Hef107, that would be the biggest fear come true.
According to me? wtf? personally I would not have a kid until im near my mid twenties
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