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Leniency in 'Other Topics' - Page 6

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#51
02-11-2013, 04:07 AM
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As this thread is progressing, some are forgetting that it was about 'Other Topics'. The other parts of the forum are fine.

I know this is a DAP forum, not an entertainment forum, but this suggestion was specifically for that part of the forum.

If you start closing threads in 'Other Topics' for veering off topic, or not talking nicely- I guarantee you will lose half the people there.

If you want you could also have an only 'Other Topics' mod. (mod that can only mod 'Other topics' /redundancy)

Over the top:

1)Racial slurs

2)Posting other people's pics or info.

3)Posting NSFW images.

4)Constantly harrassing a member (this is up to the mod's judgement)

5)Constantly spamming messages

6)Insulting mods/admins.

7)Talking about why a member was banned or which mod banned him.


Not over the top:

1)Veering off topic (This is 'Off Topic', we should be allowed to do that)

2)Here and there name calling (idiot, dumbo, hoodlum), this will happen, happens in the other parts of the forum.

3)Instead of closing threads, the 'Other Topics' mod could give a warning.
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02-11-2013, 04:12 AM
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I like this idea. WE at the OTHER TOPICS sub-forum have become quite fond of each other. We are close enough (as far as forums go) that we talk on a daily basis. We tease and joke with each other. Albeit sometimes rather cruelly, but its all in good fun. We feel like a mini DAP family and we act the part. You'll see the usual suspects in all the threads. So please, just give us a warning at the very least before any thread gets shut down and we'll deal with the character that needs dealing with.

Nick. I love you. And thank you for doing all this wonderful work that has allowed us to connect with other people in the same situation. Even if they are 3000 miles away and I have to fly to DC just to get coffee with her.
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I understand what you mean and am in complete agreement with you.

There were some posts that I'm sure were flagged down by others and those ultimately ended in him getting banned. However, the threads (that were completely within the rules of the forum) got shut down because of him too. And I understand you guys aren't suppose to know who we are and all that, but in the same way, the one user doesn't represent the entire thread either. Plus, there were only 2 threads that we all posted in anyway. Ivycali's "Describe" thread and Flyin's "Love" thread. We (as a group) hardly ventured off into other threads. Thanks for listening!


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I am saying, the only reason why you are upset about the mods unfairly closing down your thread is because it was your thread, not because lots of posters could post and talk but it was it was YOUR thread and you were emotionally attached to it.

I am not selecting reading at all. Now, if it not an ego thing why exactly would you ask that question?

You become emotionally attached to things when they are your own things. I said, or because it was your thread and you answered why else would you become attached to it?
So this right here tells me, the only reason why you are upset is because the mods close YOUR thread not because it was a place to talk or where other members had gotten closer no because it was YOUR thread.


This is what you are saying

"I become emotionally attached to it because it was MY thread"

You confirmed this when you answer my question with a question.





"Why else would you become emotionally attached to something?"

To answer your question: Because its yours


Are you done backpedaling or what?
If I'm breaking down your sentences correctly:

Because my response was:

"I'm emotionally attached I guess"

"Why else would you become emotionally attached"

It equaled me saying:

"Because it is mine and I have an ego"

So what sid or sk18 or ivycali said is irrelevant?

Yes, I'm emotionally attached because it is mine. But, because it mine I monitored it the best I could. I also kept it going every day. I knew people liked it because waiting for DACA is stressful and it helped us take our mind of it. I was only approved 3 days ago. It helped me keep my mind of it. I couldn't take people complaining about not being approved. It became like a little family. Not backpedaling at all Piano. You of all people Piano should know I'm not that type of girl.
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02-11-2013, 04:13 AM
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If I'm breaking down your sentences correctly:

Because my response was:

"I'm emotionally attached I guess"

"Why else would you become emotionally attached"

It equaled me saying:

"Because it is mine and I have an ego"

So what sid or sk18 or ivycali said is irrelevant?

Yes, I'm emotionally attached because it is mine. But, because it mine I monitored it the best I could. I also kept it going every day. I knew people liked it because waiting for DACA is stressful and it helped us take our mind of it. I was only approved 3 days ago. It helped me keep my mind of it. I couldn't take people complaining about not being approved. It became like a little family. Not backpedaling at all Piano. You of all people Piano should know I'm not that type of girl.
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02-11-2013, 04:31 AM
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SK18, most things in the over the top category are already covered by our site wide rules.

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1)Veering off topic (This is 'Off Topic', we should be allowed to do that)
The section is other topics, the threads each have a topic. If veering off topic didn't matter we'd have one moster thread. You wouldn't like that situation. Having said that, the mods are clearly much more lenient in the other topics section as far as this rule.



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2) Here and there name calling (idiot, dumbo, hoodlum), this will happen, happens in the other parts of the forum.
Absolutely not.

And you should report every instance of this happening by clicking the little "flag" icon under the thread. This helps the mods a great deal.

Look at this thread for example. I've just had to issue infractions, because this is just NOT the level of discourse we want anywhere on the site. I don't care how "other topic" something is. And, it won't "just happen" because we always (eventually) ban those people. That's a promise, and is the reason why DAP survived all our trials.

If a person trolls or attacks other people we will cut him/her off from the community, period. These members are never missed. I speak from experience.

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3)Instead of closing threads, the 'Other Topics' mod could give a warning.
This is an idea worth considering. Thank you.

Usually the mods will issue infractions to offending users, that transparently helps to keep the thread sane. Sometimes they do issue a verbal warning in the thread too, but we will consider making that an official part of the process.
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02-11-2013, 04:42 AM
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Awesome, thanks for listening. Get some rest!
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02-11-2013, 04:46 AM
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He is working overtime on West Coast time. Thanks Nick.
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02-11-2013, 09:44 AM
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I don't think it was fair that my thread or Ivy's thread was closed over the comments that Koffha made. I was off this week mostly because it was my school week. I think if you have editing power is easy to take out that person.

There have been some of the threads where you just can't edit out so is better to close but ours we tried to best to control them. I mean sid and sk18 were participants and they are the ones that started asking for more mods.


All the people on the list below are participants.

WE LOVE YOU AND APPRECIATE YOUR WORK. We are just too friendly with each other now. We promise to hold back. PLEASE RE OPEN IVY ( http://dreamact.info/forum/showthread.php?t=38168) AND FLYIN'S THREADS (http://dreamact.info/forum/showthread.php?t=35793). Since you have banned Koffha you can edit him out. The opinions he expressed are not our own.

SINCERELY AND THANK YOU

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MadMan (occasional participant)
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PRETTY PLEASE!!! I DON'T WANT TO MAKE A NEW ONE. I help people out all the time, but this is my relax thread.

w/ a Cherry on top. I mean how can we help you? Since you are not here every night you are not able to see some of the bonds that form. Most of Ivy's thread is all inside jokes.
Those two threads are too long to go back and delete any offending comment (at least I don't have the time). You both are welcome to start new threads and link to closed thread to refer back to it. There has to be a cap on length of thread anyway.
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02-11-2013, 01:33 PM
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After getting some sleep and thinking about it I think that Nick and the Mods are absolutely 100%right for closing the threads and banning you know who (he really had it coming). Yes it sucks that those two threads were closed but the purpose of DAP is to come together and push for immigration reform and that should be our priority right now. We could always create another. These are my last 2 cents. Happy day everyone!
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Cased closed. Closing thread.
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