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Any other Closet DACA recipients out there? - Page 3

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That's how it works.USCs end up with the prom queen and become a hero for saving her while undocumented guys get treated like shit and told they're only after girls for the green card.
Harsh but probably true. I do however have a USC friend who recently graduated from law school and was just the other day joking on Facebook about how she should find herself a DACAer man who probably works as hard as she does and would understand.

In all seriousness, most females are attracted to confidence, if you feel that someone is thinking you only want to be with them because of a green card that could portray a lack of self confidence and be a major turn off. Love is love, let it happen.
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I think this is very much a personal choice you should make for yourself. If you feel comfortable enough to do so and you feel like this decision would make you feel "liberated" in a sense, then go ahead and do so. However, if you are not ready, then don't. It's not mandatory to specify such information to others. It doesn't define who you are. With DACA or not, you are who you are and you have built your business because of hard work - not because of status.

If you decide to come out, I'm sure everything will be just fine!

Don't worry too much.
Thanks Sundreamer. I absolutely agree with you that with or without DACA, hard work and determination is what ultimately defines us all.
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It's better to just let it all out. I kept myself from telling my fiance for about more than a year and couple months ago I decided to tell him because due to Trump becoming President you don't know what will happen. We've always knew that we will get married. After I told him about my status he was okay with it. I had to explain what DACA was and of course he had some questions and I gladly answered them. So, we've been engaged for about 3 months now. Since DACA was rescinded we are in a realization that my status is not stable and we have to do something about it.

Funny thing my close friends don't know that I have DACA. Only few people knows. My fiance and my family . Hahaha ������
I recall that "liberated" feeling when I first told my husband, we'd only been dating a couple of months but it felt right. He had a lot of questions too, he could not comprehend why DACA even existed before that.
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what in the fuck is up with all the girls from here getting with USC?
where the fuck are the girl USC looking for guy DACA'ers
smfh.
USC girls are a dime a dozen...long as you got everything else beside the legal status together it's easy to land one. I wouldn't marry just for citizenship or legal status. Maybe it's a cultural thing but in the asian culture illegal status is more common. It doesn't affect me when dating a USC but most of the time I was in a better financial position and career status than them.
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I recall that "liberated" feeling when I first told my husband, we'd only been dating a couple of months but it felt right. He had a lot of questions too, he could not comprehend why DACA even existed before that.
Definitely with that liberated feeling. I remember I would hide my phone when I look through this site because I don't want him asking questions about it but now that he knows I can confidently show him what I'm looking at. One time he saw me looming through the forums and he said " Babe, you don't have to worry about anything. You've got me" The best feeling is knowing that your love one knows your situation and clearly accepts you for it and also that they are 100% behind you.

My suggestion is don't be afraid to tell that special person you have about your situation. Heck there's no time to dilly dally. DACA ended so we need to get ready. Remember that significant person chose to be with you not because you're a "USC" or that you have a "GC" or whatever is your status. That person chose to be with you because he/she cares and loves you.
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Yea I am. Not only DACA closet, but also sexual orientation. I'm so deep in the closet, I found Narnia
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Yea I am. Not only DACA closet, but also sexual orientation. I'm so deep in the closet, I found Narnia
Its sad that people even need to 'come out' whether it be DACA or sexual orientation. Why can't the world be more understanding and tolerant? I'm sure you have your reasons for waiting to 'come out' and I'm sure there isn’t an instant solution that could provide us with the tremendous sense of relief we all long for. Thanks for sharing that personal detail with us.
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what in the fuck is up with all the girls from here getting with USC?
where the fuck are the girl USC looking for guy DACA'ers
smfh.
why would a USC be purposely looking for someone undocumented? that seems like an odd prerequisite.

similarly, i do not think us women go purposely looking for USCs. at least, not the majority. it just happens due to a variety of reasons.

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The best feeling is knowing that your love one knows your situation and clearly accepts you for it and also that they are 100% behind you.
this is a nice comment. thanks for sharing.

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Yea I am. Not only DACA closet, but also sexual orientation. I'm so deep in the closet, I found Narnia
oh god. hahahaha!
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I was with someone before DACA she was madly in love with me. She told me let's get married and if it doesn't workout you will have your residency.

We didn't get married I felt I was taken advantage of her.

Not to long ago I was dating someone amazing girl but she didn't want to stand by me knowing my status was in a limbo.

about 5 months back I was dating someone who was born here but lived in Mexico and moved back here. I thought she was the one but she ended cheating on me.

It's tough to open up to someone about this. I don't know if I can do it again.
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I was with someone before DACA she was madly in love with me. She told me let's get married and if it doesn't workout you will have your residency.

We didn't get married I felt I was taken advantage of her.

Not to long ago I was dating someone amazing girl but she didn't want to stand by me knowing my status was in a limbo.

about 5 months back I was dating someone who was born here but lived in Mexico and moved back here. I thought she was the one but she ended cheating on me.

It's tough to open up to someone about this. I don't know if I can do it again.
Don't let the actions of others define who you are. You'll find the right person someday and it'll just feel right and they will accept you for precisely who you are. Definitely don't marry for anything other than love.
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