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Dating someone with a low tier job

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11-01-2017, 06:58 AM
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Dreamers,

How do you feel about dating a person whose jobs is not as professional, or high tier as yours?

I met another girl (white American) who is a food place assistant manager. I told my boy and he laughed at me.

I want your honest opinion. What was the experience like?
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Why don't you join a dating forum and stop with these threads everyday
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Why don't you join a dating forum and stop with these threads everyday
Why don't you do the same? We are tired of hearing about your GF and how she does not pay and about her parents.
while you are at it, also look into WedMD for your medical needs/questions.
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Lol it sucks because you are bound to pay for everything.
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Why don't you join a dating forum and stop with these threads everyday
For once I agree with this dude even though he's a repeat offender and lies 80% of the time.

If you want solid advice, I think you should ask this question on a forum specialized for dating and relationships. Nothing wrong with this one, but yeah.
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But I believe in you Dreamers, I need the opinions from you.

We are all family.
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If you were raised with the mindset that men need to be the protector and the providers, then it doesn't matter what job they have. AS LONG AS, they are well behaved and well spoken. In other words, you can take them to your fancy ass work holiday parties and dinners and she can hold herself well.

If you want an equal partnership, you need to date someone in-line with your socio-economic status.

We all know I dated someone mega rich. Now I can hold my own but I will tell you at times it was intimidating and didn't allow me to be "myself" in the relationship. Moral of the story - it can be uncomfortable on both ends if you are looking for an equal partnership!
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We all know I dated someone mega rich. Now I can hold my own but I will tell you at times it was intimidating and didn't allow me to be "myself" in the relationship. Moral of the story - it can be uncomfortable on both ends if you are looking for an equal partnership!
You're the one who said you only wanted to date sugar daddies who paid for everything
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Despite all the feminism and such, it's a lot more accepted for a man to date a girl with a lower tier job than the other way around. A lot of women are striving to have a better life and perhaps feel that they've had it hard and the guy has had it easier than them so he is expected to be better off financially.

Personally, I can go either way unless the girl is just a complete fuck-up and has done nothing with her life. Everybody starts somewhere and if they have goals in life, I'm good with it.

Case in point, I knew a white girl when she was 20...she was pretty, spunky, sexy, etc. but even at 20 I could tell that she had no direction in life and wasn't doing anything with it. I met someone else that I dated for a couple of years but 8 years later, our paths crossed again and we dated for a month and at 28, she was still a complete fuckup...

She had no real job, had debt collectors calling her, and she would freely call the newly elected Obama the N word so despite the great sex and having had a crush on her in the earlier years, I couldn't stand it anymore.
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If you were raised with the mindset that men need to be the protector and the providers, then it doesn't matter what job they have. AS LONG AS, they are well behaved and well spoken. In other words, you can take them to your fancy ass work holiday parties and dinners and she can hold herself well.

If you want an equal partnership, you need to date someone in-line with your socio-economic status.

We all know I dated someone mega rich. Now I can hold my own but I will tell you at times it was intimidating and didn't allow me to be "myself" in the relationship. Moral of the story - it can be uncomfortable on both ends if you are looking for an equal partnership!
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Despite all the feminism and such, it's a lot more accepted for a man to date a girl with a lower tier job than the other way around. A lot of women are striving to have a better life and perhaps feel that they've had it hard and the guy has had it easier than them so he is expected to be better off financially.

Personally, I can go either way unless the girl is just a complete fuck-up and has done nothing with her life. Everybody starts somewhere and if they have goals in life, I'm good with it.

Case in point, I knew a white girl when she was 20...she was pretty, spunky, sexy, etc. but even at 20 I could tell that she had no direction in life and wasn't doing anything with it. I met someone else that I dated for a couple of years but 8 years later, our paths crossed again and we dated for a month and at 28, she was still a complete fuckup...

She had no real job, had debt collectors calling her, and she would freely call the newly elected Obama the N word so despite the great sex and having had a crush on her in the earlier years, I couldn't stand it anymore.
Thank you for your input, I appreciate it.
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