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EWI with no plans to marry/Family pressure - Page 2

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#11
12-12-2017, 12:39 AM
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I get shitted on daily for not getting married. Idgaf. Ima hoe and Ima stay a hoe.
At least you’re honest. Most hoes keep it on the DL and act like innocent girl. Yeah right. Ni son virgenes del culo.
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12-12-2017, 01:17 AM
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Right here.
It gets worse when you hit 30.

EWI cleared with AP.
My parents adjusted through my sibling a few years ago. My family tells me I am undocumented because I want to be.
SMH how frustrating...coming up with answers must be hard.

How did your parents adjust through sibling? We're they EWI?
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12-12-2017, 01:18 AM
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I get shitted on daily for not getting married. Idgaf. Ima hoe and Ima stay a hoe.
Lol I know what you mean
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12-12-2017, 02:44 AM
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EWI here with removal order in absentia..
My advise is to keep your mind occupied. Work extra hard, go to school, pick-up a hobby, learn to play an instrument, volunteer, etc.
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12-12-2017, 02:49 AM
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I'm an overstay and refuse to marry. Bachelor life or bust. Also would rather get deported than marry an American girl.


~"These hoes ain't loyal"__Ghandi
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12-12-2017, 03:24 AM
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Has anyone received increased pressure to marry and apply for green card from family? I am EWI therefore I have little to no hope besides a waiver. Two of my siblings have married already. However, I don't see that as a route. Am I wasting my time. Am I doing something wrong? I really hope there can be a bill in Congress to help us. I'm getting really depressed because my family does not support my ideas.

Do any of you EWI's have little to no hope? Are any of you scared of consular processing? I know I am

I am feeling shut out by my family in regards to this problem. They act like green cards are given like candy for getting married.
Well you can always bunker down until one of your siblings naturalizes and petitions for a parent (well provided the parents aren't EWI themselves), can do a waiver that way.

Other than that, not much else you can normally do, cancellation requires family members, asylum is time barred and requires your country to be fucked up one way or another, withholding of removal is a road to nowhere, U visa requires you to be a victim of a major crime and has a huge wait time, etc, etc, etc.

Honestly I feel like I rushed getting married but oh well, do you do what you have to do sometimes.
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12-12-2017, 01:01 PM
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I get shitted on daily for not getting married. Idgaf. Ima hoe and Ima stay a hoe.
LMAO!

Hey guys I'm on the same boat, I got pressured endlessly to marry my "fiance" but I couldn't knowing i didn't love him(shady-ass MF), not even for the GC. Long story short I called off the engagement, broke up with him 3 months ago. There's not going back. Now hoping things work-out for us Dreamers in the end, without having to marry. But for now, I'll just have to keep hearing my family to go back to my shitty ex and use him just for that, but fuck that, im good.
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12-12-2017, 01:33 PM
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Has anyone received increased pressure to marry and apply for green card from family? I am EWI therefore I have little to no hope besides a waiver. Two of my siblings have married already. However, I don't see that as a route. Am I wasting my time. Am I doing something wrong? I really hope there can be a bill in Congress to help us. I'm getting really depressed because my family does not support my ideas.

Do any of you EWI's have little to no hope? Are any of you scared of consular processing? I know I am

I am feeling shut out by my family in regards to this problem. They act like green cards are given like candy for getting married.
No I do not have any pressure. I am not EWI.

Do not marry for papers.
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12-12-2017, 04:31 PM
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Don’t worry it bro.. hopefully we will get relief soon, if you get married it should be for love not a gc.
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12-12-2017, 06:03 PM
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I'm not EWI but I'm in the same boat if they don't pass a relief then marriage it's not the right option for me. I really do respect people with that mindset of getting things done at all costs. But it's just not in me personally. I've have a few friends who have gone this route and expect me to do the same thing I'm talking no love just business they say it's so easy in 3 months you're good and it's done. The pressure is deff there. But I rather stick w my beliefs than to give in to something that I'm not at all comfortable doing. Just wish people would be more respectful than trying to push it on us honestly.
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