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01-08-2018, 07:43 PM
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I'm going to be brutally honest with you. If this is just arguing and there isn't anything resembling domestic violence (which is what it seems to be--only arguing), then I would expect that your wife would be okay with staying until the interview and atleast working with you on making sure that you're able to successfully adjust your status. If not, she probably never cared/loved you to begin with.

I'm sure you both will work it out though.
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01-08-2018, 07:59 PM
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I'm going to be brutally honest with you. If this is just arguing and there isn't anything resembling domestic violence (which is what it seems to be--only arguing), then I would expect that your wife would be okay with staying until the interview and atleast working with you on making sure that you're able to successfully adjust your status. If not, she probably never cared/loved you to begin with.

I'm sure you both will work it out though.
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But I think ever after a divorce you could still adjust
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01-09-2018, 10:12 AM
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Just a little FYI , when you are newly married your receive a conditional GC of 2 years, which at that point you have to reapply 90 calendar days to have the restrictions removed and to further prove your marriage is legitimate you have to show everything is still ok .. pics, letters, cards and any additional proof of your marriage. It’s like reapplying.
Whatever you two are going through just try and work it out and stay civil towards each other because you will need her and proof to get the restrictions removed before you get your permanent 10 Year GC then you are on your own. Good Luck
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I mean she knows your situation so talk to her sincerely and ask her to wait for divorce and afterward she can file for divorce... I mean you guys used to loved each other .... Will she be that cold hearted?
Just stop. It's not cold hearted. It's her life and she has an absolute right to be happy and not enslaved by a man she doesn't love and doesn't want to live with. We don't know what's going on in their relationship and how toxic it might be. He doesn't own her.
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01-11-2018, 08:47 AM
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An update from OP would good.
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Swallow your pride and go crawling back to her
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Just a little FYI , when you are newly married your receive a conditional GC of 2 years, which at that point you have to reapply 90 calendar days to have the restrictions removed and to further prove your marriage is legitimate you have to show everything is still ok .. pics, letters, cards and any additional proof of your marriage. It’s like reapplying.
Whatever you two are going through just try and work it out and stay civil towards each other because you will need her and proof to get the restrictions removed before you get your permanent 10 Year GC then you are on your own. Good Luck
So you’re saying that right when you receive your GC, you can apply to get the restrictions removed?

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I’m kinda in the same boat as you are and almost 2 months since I sent my app too. We’re working things out right now though
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01-12-2018, 08:20 PM
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man that's kinda fucked up i wouldnt marry for citizenship let alone try and entrap someone until i can get citizenship; essentially using them.
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01-12-2018, 11:35 PM
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Tell her she’s pregnant.
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01-14-2018, 12:57 AM
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Hey whats up, even though OP is no where to be found I still want to give my input on what my lawyer told me. She said that there is a law tha protects you after you get your GC. I'm didn't ask too much details since I didn't have divorce on my mind, but she said it protects you if divorce was too happen AFTER you got your GC, so my piece of advice is to come to a peaceful and healthy resolution and wait till you get it.
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