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09-24-2020, 09:36 PM
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Hi you all, hope everyone is doing fine. I'll go on and head straight to the point. Came here legally, got DACA, met my wife at work, got married, got approved for a conditional green card..well, we enjoyed the good times together and so on. one thing I can say is we enjoyed our times at the beginning just like everyone else. She told me she got kids (foreign country), she's naturalized. All hell went loose soon as her kids got here, her mother who was in her country at the time was basically running my house through her. Everything I did was bad to them, the mother turned jealousy as fcuk. Anyway...sh*t keeps going down south day by day, it has gotten to a point where she's withholding my wallet ( I guess she don't want me to leave the house), holding a knife wanting to "kill" me, breaking doors in the house, pouring water on while am asleep, and so on. Of course all of this nonsense is either on video or pictures saved up in my phone. The threats are real. Now, her and her kids have basically turned enemies. Am stuck between staying and leaving, but am more on the leaving side, cuz this nonsense isn't worth anything.

Suggestions fellas!
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09-24-2020, 10:09 PM
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Make sure you keep all this records. File a police report if possible so you have something on record. This shouldn't affect your GC in the future. As long as you can proof your marriage was real, you should be able to maintain your status.

Also, you should get a lawyer right away to make sure you are doing everything right.
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Document everything. Wait for 2 years marriage. Then leave that woman. That way you secure your 10 years. Just stay alive my friend.
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09-24-2020, 10:30 PM
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Thanks to you all for your suggestions.I think I'll get in contact with my lawyer tomorrow. Am actually due to file for removal of conditions in November this year.Not sure if I should request a waiver in case she moves out (since that's what she's talking about already, something which she's been saying before we even got married). Let you all know what the lawyers says tomorrow. Thanks, you all be safe
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09-24-2020, 11:30 PM
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Thanks to you all for your suggestions.I think I'll get in contact with my lawyer tomorrow. Am actually due to file for removal of conditions in November this year.Not sure if I should request a waiver in case she moves out (since that's what she's talking about already, something which she's been saying before we even got married). Let you all know what the lawyers says tomorrow. Thanks, you all be safe
Don't let her know that you are talking to a lawyer. If you can hold this together until November, do it.
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09-25-2020, 09:17 AM
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Don't let her know that you are talking to a lawyer. If you can hold this together until November, do it.
If you already have the conditional green card, it will not affect your status. Eventually you'll have to remove conditions, but i believe you'll be able to do it without her consent.

Get a lawyer!
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09-25-2020, 11:46 AM
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Well you've got two options:

Option 1 is to toughen it out, do the two years, file I-751 jointly, get your 10 year green card and then ditch her.

Option 2 is to ditch her now and seek a waiver filing. There's basically 3 grounds you can seek it under:
1. You entered the marriage in good faith, it didn't work out, and you divorced.
2. You entered the marriage in good faith, but suffered abuse during it (VAWA filing).
3. Your removal from US would cause you extreme hardship.
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09-25-2020, 10:41 PM
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Well you've got two options:

Option 1 is to toughen it out, do the two years, file I-751 jointly, get your 10 year green card and then ditch her.

Option 2 is to ditch her now and seek a waiver filing. There's basically 3 grounds you can seek it under:
1. You entered the marriage in good faith, it didn't work out, and you divorced.
2. You entered the marriage in good faith, but suffered abuse during it (VAWA filing).
3. Your removal from US would cause you extreme hardship.
Very knowledgeable.

To the OP, based on what you said, I think you should go with option number 2 above. Don’t tolerate another second of that BS. Good luck.
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09-26-2020, 12:05 AM
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Suggestion? Go to talk an immigration lawyer ASAP and have an escape plan.
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09-26-2020, 10:56 AM
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Come on man! Put that bitch and her crazy mom in their place like the king George you are.
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