I said something that I regret saying

I told my parents that I hate them and that it was their fault that I’m in this situation. I really wish I didn’t say that I only said it out of anger and resentment.

bro thinks this is Reddit.

Maybe you should man up and apologize to your parents in person.

I was in your shoes once. Ultimately, they brought you here for a better life.

And you apologized to them right

I think it's important for parents to admit that despite their intentions they ultimately caused life altering damage. Saying we did the best we could is not taking accountability for their actions. Ultimately, we got massively screwed.

Take that shit back before one of them dies. I had a little argument with my dad before he died and that one little momentary lapse outweighs all the good things I did for him.

I did take it back

Idk about your family but my parent's generation barely could afford to eat. I'm now upper middle class who eat Michelin on the regular. I'm thankful for what they sacrificed. Although I will admit, I did at one point in my early 20's blame my mom but I apologized a few hours after.

My personal opinion is that people who cannot provide a safe and legal environment for children should not have kids. Money to eat at Michelin restaurants does not erase trauma.