Does Anybody here blame there stupid parents? - Page 2

Originally Posted by herpinderpin

LIFE IS NOT FAIR FOR ANYONE.

Instead of comparing yourself to others get off your ass and start taking control of your life. Anger and depression come from indecision, you talk about other people having a good life, what have you done to do the same? Being undocumented has nothing to do with your problems, it's all a matter of attitude and I can cite people in our situation who have gone to lead successful lives. Put your emotions aside and use reason to develop plans of action to overcome your present problems, establish goals, be productive at all possible times while you are still young. The good things in life are actually hard to get and require our utmost persistence and discipline, so if you think that success comes easily you are in for shitloads of disappointment in life. Anyone who tells you otherwise has been really lucky or was raised to be a winner.

If your plan is to remain in the US you have two choices, get married or adopt a skilled trade that will pay very good money regardless of your legal status and wait for a reform or the DREAM act to pass in congress. If you want to have a prestigious job as an illegal alien you are SOL.

If you don't have clearly defined goals along with their dates of completion you are basically wasting your time. Sit down and think how you are going to become "rich" based on the stuff that you like to do and how you are going to invest the money you'll be making.

You are too old to be blaming your parents, let them be. You are no longer in a position to make demands, the moment you became an adult you became responsible for your own self. The more you work on your own stuff, the more you'll come to understand that you are in control of your life, and the more mature you'll become.

Do yourself a favor and buy this book, it will help you get those values not commonly instilled in lax or dysfunctional families.

Originally Posted by herpinderpin

HAHAHAHA! Here, *have a hug*, life must be really tough for you

Originally Posted by Demise

Originally Posted by herpinderpin

LIFE IS NOT FAIR FOR ANYONE.

Instead of comparing yourself to others get off your ass and start taking control of your life. Anger and depression come from indecision, you talk about other people having a good life, what have you done to do the same? Being undocumented has nothing to do with your problems, it's all a matter of attitude and I can cite people in our situation who have gone to lead successful lives. Put your emotions aside and use reason to develop plans of action to overcome your present problems, establish goals, be productive at all possible times while you are still young. The good things in life are actually hard to get and require our utmost persistence and discipline, so if you think that success comes easily you are in for shitloads of disappointment in life. Anyone who tells you otherwise has been really lucky or was raised to be a winner.

If your plan is to remain in the US you have two choices, get married or adopt a skilled trade that will pay very good money regardless of your legal status and wait for a reform or the DREAM act to pass in congress. If you want to have a prestigious job as an illegal alien you are SOL.

If you don't have clearly defined goals along with their dates of completion you are basically wasting your time. Sit down and think how you are going to become "rich" based on the stuff that you like to do and how you are going to invest the money you'll be making.

You are too old to be blaming your parents, let them be. You are no longer in a position to make demands, the moment you became an adult you became responsible for your own self. The more you work on your own stuff, the more you'll come to understand that you are in control of your life, and the more mature you'll become.

Do yourself a favor and buy this book, it will help you get those values not commonly instilled in lax or dysfunctional families.