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10-03-2007, 03:46 AM
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If you REALLY like her... go for it. But, stop and think, WHAT do you like about her.
What it meant was "I'm not 'serious' with anyone right now" << who cares about the details.

Say "ok ____, I think you're hot and sexy, I want to take you out... what'dya say?"

J/k!... really say " Hey____, I've asked you out a few times but we've never actually had the chance to hang out, how about I take you out for ice cream (dinner... wtvr) this week"? then say "I'm really busy but I think I could fit it in my schedule" Then choose a date and pretend your writing it down so it's a done deal!

tip: take charge. don't ask "ok... but when?... ...or where?" instead say... "this day at this time seems to work for me, does that work for you?" then if it doesn't choose another until you fit!

p.s- don't worry about having asked her out 3 times, or about who she's "seeing"... be confident, and don't take this too serious, have fun, become her good friend ... and then go from there

good luck.
Dude, noooo!!! Asking her a fourth time would only make him seem needy. Just stay close to her; don't ask her again; make her know you're still interested, but the next move's up to her...
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10-03-2007, 03:54 AM
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she likes some else thats shes trying to talk to and if the other dude don't give her no love she gonna come back to you, so screw her and you just came out of high school thats the age when you go crazy find your self other girlsss
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Originally Posted by Mbluparadise
If you REALLY like her... go for it. But, stop and think, WHAT do you like about her.
What it meant was "I'm not 'serious' with anyone right now" << who cares about the details.

Say "ok ____, I think you're hot and sexy, I want to take you out... what'dya say?"

J/k!... really say " Hey____, I've asked you out a few times but we've never actually had the chance to hang out, how about I take you out for ice cream (dinner... wtvr) this week"? then say "I'm really busy but I think I could fit it in my schedule" Then choose a date and pretend your writing it down so it's a done deal!

tip: take charge. don't ask "ok... but when?... ...or where?" instead say... "this day at this time seems to work for me, does that work for you?" then if it doesn't choose another until you fit!

p.s- don't worry about having asked her out 3 times, or about who she's "seeing"... be confident, and don't take this too serious, have fun, become her good friend ... and then go from there

good luck.
Dude, noooo!!! Asking her a fourth time would only make him seem needy. Just stay close to her; don't ask her again; make her know you're still interested, but the next move's up to her...
stay close to her? lol what is he a dog on a leash?

as mario said don't ask her 4th time I can tell u it will be a no already, and the only thing it would do is stroke her ego a bit more
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10-03-2007, 04:19 AM
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stay close to her? lol what is he a dog on a leash?

as mario said don't ask her 4th time I can tell u it will be a no already, and the only thing it would do is stroke her ego a bit more
LOL yeah, I didn't mean follow her around... I meant to not distance yourself from her, and yeah, to reiterate, 4th. time's not a good idea...
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10-03-2007, 07:46 AM
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Leave the girl! There are more fish in the sea........
I don't know about that,but I get the perception that the OP's really likes this person.



Anyway,I'd advise going to http://moveon.org/ since this person doesn't seem to care for you as much as you do them judging on the information given.
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wow... this is kinda fun to read...

Good luck with the girl!
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Don't listen to these guys... go for it if you really like her. You're young
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10-03-2007, 10:45 AM
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She's a whore a i bet( lol) shes probably one of those friends with benefits, those kinds of girls are nasty and dirty.
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10-03-2007, 10:52 AM
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If you've tried to hang out with her three times already and she hasn't responded with a definite yes, then I'd say move on. And she has someone else she's interested in. There are soooo many girls out there, but I guess you can't help who you like, right? If you really really really like her... well then... don't push too hard right now, cuz she doesn't seem like she wants anything. Keep in touch and if the right opportunity comes along, take it.

But for now, go find someone who wants to spend time with you and isn't a douche who's just stringing you along.
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10-03-2007, 11:14 AM
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Originally Posted by Mbluparadise
Don't listen to these guys... go for it if you really like her. You're young
He already went "for it" three times... You're young? lol what is that supposed to to do with anything

lol at elmexicanos response lol, listen to hrvatica she just told u what some of us have been teling you
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