Lady Dreamers: soliciting your insight - Page 2

gaddaym, the mandingo chronicles!

I can try to sugar coat it, but it's blue collared mostly so the fancy "professionals" who work in a cubicle or answer phones all day tend to look down on it. They have a certain image to protect and women in their mid 30's are not wasting time so they want the instant family and the guy who has the house, fancy car, and has "stability" so dating a blue collared guy doesn't cut it.

I actually discussed this with my lawyer who for the last 18 years has told me "GET MARRIED!!" a few years ago and his suggestion was to start dating "non-professional" women.

It's actually decent advice on the surface, but there aren't blue collared women the way there are blue collared men. If you look at the trades - plumbers, electricians, carpenters, mechanics, and other industries where you can still make a decent living, they are HEAVILY male dominated and so finding "blue collared women" would likely be for things that are a tier lower and in the service industry so it's a huge step downward.

Even when I tried to date there, I found that while the "professional" women looked down on me because I was not working in an office, a lot of the "non-professional" women also kind of looked down on me because I wasn't blue collared enough! I didn't drive a truck, I wasn't "country", and overall, I wasn't the type of person who would be happy working a mindless job for the rest of my life and drinking beer on the weekends.

One of them, even told me she would never date a guy who went to college because "they think they're smart". Actually, I've seen that from "gutter women" too. They'd rather date a drug dealer than a student.

It was easier when I was younger and in school though because the "professional women" were ok with dating someone in school while there was still time.

you family owns a gas station and you work morning shifts, there.

6 inches is average so I'm almost 1.5 inches above average

I'm average but thick. It's well shaped, beautiful too.

Usually a guy is on his best behavior when dating, so it is difficult to assess his true personality. If he is rude and looks down on others such as a waitress, then it is a red flag to me.

Good point girl. My gf is USC from Chile. I asked her the same question and answers similarly to what you said. I'll report later. We are about to hit up the beach and surf. Keep the feedback coming!

Have you tried single mothers who post on online dating sites? Oh can can people stop talking about their penises in this thread.

1) Inability to communicate!
Men- when we are talking about things that bother us, we are not always complaining or being confrontational. We just want you to hear us out. That's it! Nod a few times, kiss us and tell us you understand - that's it!

2) Lack of mental/intellectual stimulation
Talk politics, current events, thoughts on philosophy and psychology etc. > talking dirty anyday

3) Not being humble
I have been fortunate enough to date couple men who are doing well for themselves but if they believe that THEY achieved it all because they are smart etc... eeehh, i will pass. It is often the karma of your grandparents , and the hardwork of your parents that you are ripping the benefits of. Not to mention grace from God. While he may have worked hard, they credit belongs to everyone.

4) Cheap
I am happy to plan date nights and I usually go above and beyond when I buy gifts but if you are always looking for 50-50, it is a deal breaker for me. I know I know - women want equality but we clearly don't have equality in the workplace or pay so until we are TRULY equal, I would like someone who is a protector and provider.

Notice I didn't say sugar daddy. I am happy to support the family should the need arise but I need a man who is able to provide (able to pay bills) without me having to work.


Already know the last point is going to instigate some responses but yeah...

you're fucking disgusting