Gender Confusion - Page 2

Ahuevo que si cabron.

Nigga there aint nothing wrong with a successful CEO intelligent woman. I'm pretty sure that is clear. Whats wrong is a mother that doesn't tend to her children, cook for her husband, knows how to clean and be a woman - because she wants to be a rebel to the oppressive mean patriarchy


Feminist are extremist like ISIS and the equally extremist Men's Rights Movement. Put all three in the same room in your in for a hell of a time.

I support the beauty of femininity and masculinity **note, this exist in the LGBT community as well. One partner will be more feminine and more masculine than their counterpart. The Ying and the Yang.

In 2017, I was in Palo Alto Irish bar near Stanford. It was a cold winter night in early December. The bar was packed, no surprise, and there was a small group sitting outside near the portable heater. They had ample space, so I asked if they were OK with my group sharing a table. Without hesitation, they said it was aight.

I sit down next to this woman, who had short green hair and had hairier armpits than me. I open up to her, banter, and engage in small talk. Eventually, we are having a full on conversation.

She tells me she grew up in a boarding house in San Francisco. She said the lady that raised her and a group of girls would tell them that "men are evil and you mustn't allow them to walk all over you. Men just want to use you as their personal slave and when you get a job they're going to pay you 70 cents to the dollar. blah blah more feminist BS."

Anyway, the lady I was talking to was a very nice woman. I couldn't help but feel bad for her. She had her entire life robbed by an extremist. From a young age, she was indoctrinated to believe that men were evil, so she had her guards up and sabotaged her relationships on her own. The irony in all this is that she was the one doing things subconsciously to cause the failure - so when they failed, her earlier indoctrination that men are dogs and evil were confirmed from the constant failure. A manifestation of evil nasty feminism. This put me in a sad spot. How are the above women put in such a place to influence kids? They are criminals. Criminals that then manifest children that are 'broken'...

To all my lady Dreamers: be proud of being feminine, be proud that you are intelligent, be proud that you have the ability to give birth to children, be proud that you can be a mother and raise your children to embrace their femininity/masculinity, be proud that you can make your family strong by doing the small things such as: cleaning and cooking - you alone are the individual that does the most important things to keep the family intact, be proud that you have a huge influence in the family unit, be proud that after all of those things- you still hold a job and you can successful at it, be proud when you say "I like cooking for my family." "I need to cut this outing short, because I still need to clean the house and pick up my kids." If anyone gives you shit for that, remember the lady from the bar in Palo Alto. Don't rob a child's life.

To my male dreamers: be present in your children's life, be present in your marriage - this is far more important than your children by the way, your children will eventually leave you once you've done your job as a dad, but you made the decision to be with your wife for the rest of your life - your relationship with her should be superior to that of your children, never let it become a 'routine' - smack her ass and tell her shes lookin good - surprise her with an outing, dont tell her where you're going - just tell her to pack her shit and you're going on an adventure and you took care of everything, become useful around the house when shit breaks. Be present by listening to your wife, is she venting about work and the people she has to deal with? Guess what, she doesn't want your advice. Keep your mouth shut, don't just hear her, but listen to what she has to say. Regardless of how petty her complaining is, just understand that she experiences the world differently. Nod your head and if you feel like she may seeking advice, say "Is this something you would like advice on?" If she says yes, then thats the green light, if she is hesitant, keep your mouth shut.

The ying and the yang baby. Dont get suckered by the noise dreamers. You know what goes with the flow? Dead fish. Be the salmon that swims up stream, sure its a rocky ride and you're gonna hit bumps along the journey, but its all part of the adventure and growing.


Good luck.

There is nothing in a women's biological makeup that obliges her to become a traditional housewife, it's their choice. It doesn't equate to them rebelling against "oppressive mean patriarchy" unless they're those stereotypical radical feminists.

Men are also capable of cooking, cleaning, and fulfilling housework tasks, there's nothing wrong with any of that. It's not feminine and emasculating to be a house husband.

Femininity and Masculinity are cultural and are not necessarily based on sexual dimorphism

I don't disagree with you, so I don't know what your point is. I cook with my wife and we clean together. Put on some music, pour some wine in a couple of glasses (occasionally). It's a good time!


Femininity and Masculinity are cultural and are not necessarily based on sexual dimorphism

This is not accurate. Here, try this social experiment. Next time your girl gets on a feminist rant, tell her that "..men and women are not equal" (cause we aint). Tell her .."if that were true, then open this pickle jar for me."


Boooom goes the dynamite .

In my statement, I was implying that the things we perceive as masculine and feminine in society are entirely cultural, and certainly not related to sexual dimorphism which physically separates female from male.

My brother. I understand.

But did you read the last part of my message?

Entirely cultural? They did experiments with land apes and found that its ingrained into biology.

Boys often want to play with trucks, girls with dolls. Does that mean they all do it? No, there are exceptions.