LGBT Dreamer Community: Who are you? - Page 3

That's true. But I was so uncomfortable with the whole idea. Lol

LOL Who cares man. Just get married, get green card. Divorce after 7 years. While you are married you live your own life. Perfect plan if you don't want to come out.

My momma told be "ABOUT DAMN TIME!!" when I came out, I love that woman, she's amazing. I don't know what I'd do without her. She plays around with me and tells me I'm going to hell. :/ Once she forgot and reminded me to not get a girl preggers. I feel so fortunate next to you're guys' stories. Marriage is legal in New York though.

It used to be a closeted undocumented gay, but now I'm out completely. I don't hide it anymore though, life is too short to be carrying that burden and weight. It wasnt easy coming out but when I did, my self esteem skyrocketed. It was the beat day ever I'm saddened i didn't do it sooner. Every situation is different but I definitely encourage everyone to contemplate the pros/cons based to their situation if you were to come out.
If people ask me, i don't lie any more. Enough of that. It's funny because those who truly care about you will never ask, and those who just want gossip will be the first to ask, they are not true friends. True family and friends will love you the way you are.

How does it feel to be gay???

It feels like vomiting rainbows, obviously.

I'm talking about from a psychological and scientific point of view.

It just like you're straight... Put it this way, if you're a straight guy try being attracted to men. (Not gonna happen right?)
Vise versa if you're a girl.
You're born like that, from my experience. I've always known my whole life. Don't get me wrong I can still appreciate a beautiful woman or even say "damnn SHES FINE!" haha But at the end of the day I'm still gay.
I don't believe in Bisexuals by the way, I just think they're people on the road to coming out. :]

Yup, I feel the same way. When I was younger, I was attracted to girls. I later found out I was only attracted to their brains, not physically attracted to them. I too appreciate a woman's body but never in a sexual way. You know those guys that are always checking ladies out? That's me, but instead of ladies I'm checking out them guys.

Oh, sorry, I thought you were mocking us in your question.

Scientifically, homosexuality is just said to be the same sex attraction. Gay animals want to copulate with their same gender. Homosexuality is said to contain a species population so that it doesn't overpopulate. That's why it only happens in a small percentage of the population, the species needs to grow without overpopulating. I remember reading in some primate populations, the gay counterparts would often help with the child care. Gay penguins on the other side steal eggs and raise the children on their own. Those thieving bastards!

I firmly believe men can find other men attractive, same for women, no matter what sexual orientation. It's like appreciating a work of art; we know when something looks good. But, the difference between homosexuals and heterosexuals is that homosexuals are sexually attracted to their own gender.

BTW, I cannot believe people don't think bisexuality exists. People don't think homosexuality is real either and yet look at us!