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10-03-2007, 11:20 AM
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It's not like they're getting married. Plus, maybe she's young and nervous too ^^^ bully.
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10-03-2007, 11:33 AM
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It's not like they're getting married. Plus, maybe she's young and nervous too ^^^ bully.
She's young and nervous too?! If she tells the guy yes but never follows through, or when she told him I'm kind of single but not really single? What kind of answers are these?!

Have YOU ever went out with a guy after turning him down 2/3 times.? Of course not
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It's not like they're getting married. Plus, maybe she's young and nervous too ^^^ bully.
She's young and nervous too?! If she tells the guy yes but never follows through, or when she told him I'm kind of single but not really single? What kind of answers are these?!

Have YOU ever went out with a guy after turning him down 2/3 times.? Of course not
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10-03-2007, 11:43 AM
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I would have to agree with dreamact1982, except with the part about walking away when she comes up to you. What you need is to give her some time and space, go look for other girls and have fun, then when she breaks up with whoever or is in need of a friend you have to be there. Plain and simple. Whatever you do don't ask her again and don't get stuck just being "the friend"
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I would have to agree with dreamact1982, except with the part about walking away when she comes up to you. What you need is to give her some time and space, go look for other girls and have fun, then when she breaks up with whoever or is in need of a friend you have to be there. Plain and simple. Whatever you do don't ask her again and don't get stuck just being "the friend"
That will put him automatically in the friends category, your not suppose to be an emotional tampon and listen to her "break up" stories, if she needs a friend to be there after a break up she can call one of her girlfriends
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what I meant is that you want to be "there" for her not just there.. it depends how you project yourself. Don't be the tampon, be the guy that takes her out to have fun when she's down, show her a good time and stay away from all the "guy-friend" stuff.
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what I meant is that you want to be "there" for her not just there.. it depends how you project yourself. Don't be the tampon, be the guy that takes her out to have fun when she's down, show her a good time and stay away from all the "guy-friend" stuff.
I disagree OBJECTION LOL...Why should he take her out to have fun when she is down?! When he asked 3 times and she played him, i bet she wasnt much concerned that HE was down? Why should he then be? He is supposed to reward her with good time? What is he rewarding her for? For stringing him along all this time, the only time he should reward her with good time is if he has a reason to....You dont reward a small child with candy when they break a glass, and you definitely dont reward a female with good time if she hasnt at least made the "effort" to be fair to you
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Anyway,I'd advise going to http://moveon.org/ since this person doesn't seem to care for you as much as you do them judging on the information given.
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Yeah, but she turned him down three times in the same conversation. It's not like he's asked her out on three separate occasions.
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what I meant is that you want to be "there" for her not just there.. it depends how you project yourself. Don't be the tampon, be the guy that takes her out to have fun when she's down, show her a good time and stay away from all the "guy-friend" stuff.
I disagree OBJECTION LOL...Why should he take her out to have fun when she is down?! When he asked 3 times and she played him, i bet she wasnt much concerned that HE was down? Why should he then be? He is supposed to reward her with good time? What is he rewarding her for? For stringing him along all this time, the only time he should reward her with good time is if he has a reason to....You dont reward a small child with candy when they break a glass, and you definitely dont reward a female with good time if she hasnt at least made the "effort" to be fair to you
holds true if you really really care about the girl, but if he just has a crush and wants to date her and w/e you have to overlook the past and move on. There is no need to hold grudges if you're gonna get what you want later on, then you can treat her however you want and DO NOT let her disrespect you...

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