does your situation affect your love life? - Page 4

Excuse me? Please make sure you have sufficient evidence before even insinuating that someone is a troll. What exactly in my post makes you think that I'm a troll? Did you even look at my profile and my posts on other threads before you made that comment? If this is how you treat new members at the DAP then good luck encouraging new people to become active in this website.

I'm going to ask again: what exactly did you find offensive in my post?

I told my guy about 5 months into our relationship, he didn't judge me for my status. A couple months after I told him about my situation, we became engaged. I'm 23yrs old from Mexico and my fiance is 34yrs old, a white guy from Louisiana who is a pilot. He loves me for me and not for my status. He left everything he had to move and stay is LA Cali for me, since he knows I can't fly. He knows that my family is undocumented as well and he doesn't judge them either. He is always there to help me and my family. We live together and our planning to get married he wants to fix my situation asap because he wants me to finish school to become an RN. Also so I can start traveling with him everywhere he fly's to. I guess some of us are luckier then others. When your with someone who claims that they love you, then they will stay with you no matter what. Love doesn't have a "legal or illegal status" love has no boundaries and it will go a long way. So, if the person your with can't accept you for your status, then let them go and move on because that person was never meant for you.

Seriously? Your calling him a troll just because he said he is gay... your one sad individual. I don't judge people at all and you shouldn't either. Your judging him because he is different but, reality check, there are millions judging us and trying to get us deported because of our status!

I'm hoping he seriously misread your post or something. Unfortunately, bigotry is one of perils of online anonymity... But, I really enjoyed hearing your perspective, so please don't let one fools intolerance stop you from sharing on this site.

Well I am currently married to a usc..she didn't know I was an illegal..but it doesn't affect our love life. We're working on my status

You know, I'm gay myself-and yes, my status affects my "love life" Many people might think that since I'm gay, i'm okay with guys paying for my stuff and driving me around, as if i was the "girl" in the relationship, but I'm not okay. I wish i was the guy who picked up my date, paid for all the stuff, had a job, drove to the gym, and went to his house--but I can't because I don't drive, and imagine how embarrassing it would be to get pulled over and saying I don't have a driver's lic and getting my car towed. So, no I don't date because I don't want to be seen as the girl in the relationship.

Also, to the douche bag who called the other gay guy a "troll", you are type of Mexican that give the rest of the Mexican heterosexuals a bad stereotype.

i think you should discuss your immigration status now. you've been together for 4 years. that should be enough time for him to get to know you. if he doesn't understand you now, he never will.

I hope that she doesn't give birth to a moron like you

haha

Just to chime in that people really need to look up the definition of troll before they start getting their panties in a bunch.