If I were you I'd tell your bro...record her saying that shit and then play it for him and see what he tells you. Now if I were him I'd tell you to go for it and pretend it didn't happen until I got my citizenship and then play that tape for her and dump her ass. She sounds like a lovely person *sarcasm*...I'm sure she'll understand and have no trouble finding herself someone to fuck around with... And if all else fails, write a script and sell it to Hollywood and hopefully you'll make enough money to wire to your bro and he can get an investor's visa and get his papers fixed like that.