Let's talk about <3 Part II - Page 473

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=W9DlE4cclPE

Have you guys seen this.. featuring Chingo Bling. Hilarious.

so your mind is pretty much made up then. So agree with piano sell the ring and put the dress up on ebay and just move on.
I guarantee that she will contact you in a few days or weeks to try to work things out though. Don't string her along at that point, it isn't fair to either of you. You'll find another girl in no time and you just avoided a bad marriage.

Yeah, I'm taking the ring to the pawn shop tomorrow and the dress is going on ebay and craigslist. Maybe the dress will make another girl happy.

All the post said was "I don't drink? I'm gay." I thought you were implying that you not drinking is as big a joke as you being gay. The fool didn't even know how to backspace or what DAP is, you're fine.

I think what happened is that you both changed and not together. When people say "people change" is the truth. I mean we are living and we have needs. Those needs evolve. Sometimes people want things to be static and stay in the "honey moon" stage forever, but that is never the case. You are also really focused on the fact she when out with her friends. I mean if you got wasted to then we are at 1 for 1. I think since you have decided to move on what you should do is focus on asking what did you like about her at the beginning, midway, and at the end? What did you dislike about her at the beginning, midway, and at the end? You are saying she changed from A--->C in the past two years, but sometimes there are flaws right from the start that only grow toward the end. You are also mad because she curses and bitches now. Do you think she has some bottled anger inside? There was an obvious breakdown of communication. Is she a USC?
As you move forward make sure you are done and forgive whatever her for whatever happened. You don't want to carry baggage around.

yeah I was playing poker didn't even realized my phone was gone, but let just hope nothing comes out of it

You right we both changed. She always puts the blame on me and never wants to admit her mistakes. I admit mine well most of the time. Yes she is a USC, and she said once that I only wanted her for her papers. But I told her I dont care for no papers. I went out to drink because she ditched me so fast for her friends. I will not go back with her. I really think this relationship is over. It hurts but I can get over it. Maybe one day I'll find a girl that will love me forever.

People don't change overnight. He knew the person she is while he was giving her the ring. Kawi is not telling us something, don't see anything in the posts that is grounds for breaking off an engagement. What did she do? Go out with her friends and cussed at you? To me it sounds like an impulsive decision brought on by anger. Calm down and think about it for atleast a week. The girl was with you for 2 years, you owe her atleast that much.

So, where is cajeta these days? I miss her. g33k what did you do with her?

It takes tons of mutual work. You want to find someone that wants to work at it as hard as you. collaboration and compromise. But, aghhh. yeah, none of that you want me for my papers thing.

No but she changed over 1 year. ever since we been engaged she changed for the worst. We have had problems during this time. I been with the girl for almost 4 years. Thru the thick and thin she stayed with me like I did with her. But the love is not there anymore, she treats me like crap and I do that too. She is jealous all the time, can't do anything but I loved it. But now we changed and now we don't feel the same love with did before. It's hard to explain and I feel short on words but this cannot go on.