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#51
01-17-2010, 12:43 AM
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Come on juang, you can't deny the guy posted a very ignorant comment and I don't think anyone was rude replying to him.

What's obvious is that YGanan isn't quite aware of what exactly being "undocumented" means.

So let me explain YGanan; Undocumented means that you don't have documents that can prove you are a legal resident in the country. Papers like a social security number, driver's license, state IDs, work permet, etc.. Being undocumented or "illegal" here, for most of us, just means that we don't have those sort of papers to provide when applying for a good job or drive a car. Doesn't necessarily mean your poor or have no family. Of course there may be a lot of undocumented people going through those hardships you mentioned, but most of us have families and most of us have some sort of job(really shitty jobs).

So yea I hope you get the idea now.
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Can you guys stop it? To some people the term "undocumented" equals "poor". That's because most undocumented people are poor.
And that's supposed to make it okay?

Ever hear people say "oh, immigrants don't pay taxes" or "oh, they get to mooch off welfare and medicaid"? Yeah, those myths are perpetuated by ignorant schmucks like yourself who think that undocumented = poor.

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What's really laughable is the attitude you all are giving this guy. I guess it shows the kind of people you all really are.
Not retarded? I don't follow.
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01-18-2010, 03:59 AM
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I'm a girl and even I avoid getting into long-term relationships because I expect guys to dump me because I can't drive, currently don't have a job, don't have the ID to get into clubs and buy drinks, and all that crap. This stuff was excusable when I was a student, but now that I'm in in my mid- twenties, I've started worrying more and more about potential boyfriends thinking I'm a loser. Obviously, I can't tell anyone I'm illegal.

I know I'm being irrational. I do agree that you shouldn't let your immigration status keep you from having a life. So I'm resolving to stop focusing on what I can't do and just freaking stop being afraid of dating.
right on! yeah we deserve to find happiness like any other person, so don't let your situation stop you.
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01-19-2010, 07:56 AM
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I'm a girl and even I avoid getting into long-term relationships because I expect guys to dump me because I can't drive, currently don't have a job, don't have the ID to get into clubs and buy drinks, and all that crap. This stuff was excusable when I was a student, but now that I'm in in my mid- twenties, I've started worrying more and more about potential boyfriends thinking I'm a loser. Obviously, I can't tell anyone I'm illegal.

I know I'm being irrational. I do agree that you shouldn't let your immigration status keep you from having a life. So I'm resolving to stop focusing on what I can't do and just freaking stop being afraid of dating.
Dating with our circumstances is hard for us ladies too lol.

But, I'm going to go out more and stop being so afraid too. I'm not even weary of the dating thing, it's just if/when the relationship gets serious that I am worried about.
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Dating with our circumstances is hard for us ladies too lol.

But, I'm going to go out more and stop being so afraid too. I'm not even weary of the dating thing, it's just if/when the relationship gets serious that I am worried about.
i always thought you were a dude. haha
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Well im currently dating a girl in the same situation as me so yeah we both know our stories, and well as far as driving i do the driving its a necessity here.
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i always thought you were a dude. haha
No, Feenmi. I'm a girl lol.
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No, Feenmi. I'm a girl lol.


precisely why I started the a/s/l thread!! Haha
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ive asked girls out on dates and have been so embarrased to have to do the double date routine because lack of car so i sort of gave up.

but now my parents really want me to get out of the house, get married etc that they are willing to lend me their car and give me money for the date as well

so let's see what happens now.
Dude i know this is not encouranging ,but that would make me feel like i am getting in the way;therefore, i would go to my country and find a new exicting life there. It just sucks when your parents start to push you away ,but i guess they are right.
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I am a Dreamer. Well, i am in love with an african american girl ,but all beacuse i dont have car,money i have never told her that. To make the story sadder i never have talk to her ,because i feel that it is pointless to even try to date.
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