In order to avoid confusion at a later time... - Page 7

Yes I agree the big picture sounds dumb, but in the meantime? I mean lets face the facts here. How old are we? Chances are you will not be with person you are currently dating a couple years from now. We are too young and immature in relationships does not matter how many people we have dated. Don't come at me saying but, I've dated everyone blah blah blah.... because I'm not buying that shit. Of course there are always exceptions to the rule. A lot of people in their 30's still don't know what the hell they want in life let alone 20 year olds.

Well yes I am still dating and I will not be done for a good while. lol

Not stupid at all. I think that you would be FAR happier with a person who understands your life and your problems than someone who doesn't give a shit. When you're in a serious relationship with someone you don't date that person, you date their problems and it takes a lot to understand them.

Exactly!!!! Yes!!! right on!!!! then you wouldn't have to hide shit. You would feel totally comfortable discussing problems, with no fear of dreaded question's (you know which ones). *in a sarcastic voice* Besides riding the bus is fun!!........Not

Okay i made one www.dreamiedating.com

See thats exactly what i mean... and that is coming from a girl right?

22 (23 on the 31st!), white, female

and who says someone who is a citizen can't sympathize with what you're going thru..? Don't get me wrong, love can't stop you from dating anyone no matter what, but if you're undocumented I think it would be a better choice to date someone with papers, unless she's extremely HOT!!! lol.

ps. It shouldn't be hard to open up to your bf. gf. about your status, if that person really loves you then he/she will understand and if they don't, screw them, you don't need them.

I agree with that part but, I also think that you shouldn't date people who have extremely outstanding debts(no matter how hot they are), credit card problems, etc. says something about their character and haphazardness. Will cause YOU problems later in life. Oh and don't forget a prenup!!! You will have no one to thank but yourself.