Marrying a citizen

...has anybody done this before, I would like to know what to expect.

Just be aware that it's still a gamble and in the end, she might just decide to back out... after you're already married. I have a mandatory summon to an orientation for divorce this 8th...
If you're a guy, you may feel like she has you grabbed by the b*lls... this was with a girlfriend of over 4 years that wanted to "help" me because she "loved" me. But maybe not all USC girls are b*tches.

u already filed the papers already ???? but u can still get it tho if you already filed the papers

my father did it ,it wasnt difficult tho he had a lawyer and she was with him everystep of the way

According to our lawyer, they have gotten very strict. You really need to know the person to pass the interview. They can ask you really personal stuff..anything from his/her dog to family to bedroom habits are all questions that can be asked. So just be careful..
My ex bf and I were considering this option (he is an American Citizen). I liked him but didn't love him..it took a LOT to say no to taking this easy way out. Something inside me kept saying he wasn't the one. Marriage for me is a one time thing and I didn't wanna compromise on that principle. Hopefully it will pay off one day but it was by far one of the most difficult decisions I had to make..

ouch!!! so you did the interview and everything? How long did the process take?

Damn. If you don't mind me asking, why did she change her mind?

I needed her birth certificate to complete the packet that was to be sent out. We didn't even file. Didn't get to the interview either. Couldn't tell you why she changed her mind. From the get go she said she was doing this to help us. Once she, or her d*mn girls, got it into her head that I was only with her for that reason, shhh hit the fan and the boat started sinking. Tried patching it up, but it was done. We met up again early 2009, she said she was wrong, and wanted to help me out cause it was the right thing to do. We start the whole thing again, I drive out to her state, but have to drive back a couple months later to take care of a court summons for a traffic violation. After the 2 months it takes me to finish my community service, she says, she got tired of waiting. Can't say I was surprised, but shame on me... fooled me twice.
Should've listened to my mother. I guess she saw it all coming...

if ure not marrying for love then dont do it..

Love isn't enough. Responsibility and maturity is equally important

Sorry to hear what happened to you Dazany. Too many girls out there like that, and their emotional unpredictability won't ever give you peace of mind.

You might not be in a good place legally, but emotionally, at least you're not dealing with her.