I know this is Waaaaayyyy Offf topic but need help!

I Know it's waaaaaay off topic but guys I post these because I feel really bad right now, Heartbroken , and I feel like I can trust you guys to help me out, and it seems like most of you ladies and gentlemen seem to know more about relations because you have your Girlfriends or Boyfriends!Something I've never had sadly SO I hope you can help me with this problem I just encountered a few hours back Guys I would really appreciate it!


Well Starts like this I chat with this girl I like (I've known her since high school had her in a class) But graduated a few months back but she will graduate soon, Well I like this girl so I asked her out, OVER & OVER like 3 times every time we chatted I asked her out! BUT SHE ALWAYS SAID YEAH SURE, OR YES BUt SHE DON"T KNOW WHEN!!! and so we never have gone out! BUT seemed fishy to me so I decided to dig deeper today and confront her and I told her "if she was single or Taken?"

And this is what she answered! "WELL I WOULDN'T SAY TAKEN BUT I WOULDN'T SAY SINGLE EITHER"

WELL I WAS REALLY CONFUSED AND TOLD HER SO, But then she replied "It's a long story I'll tell it to you another time well I have to go"

But here's my question for you it's: What did she meant by her saying "she was not taken but not single either"?


THANKS IN ADVANCE I really Appreciate it!!!!

Shes in hiatus most likely

find someone else!!!!!

btw, i admire the fact that you don't give up. lol.

it means that she is talkin to someone and but its not official...i say find someone else cause she is givin u the run around anyways...

yeah it means shes talking to some other dude...... she doesnt know whats right in front of her! which means she has bad taste.! b0o0o0o0o0o her!

Leave the girl! There are more fish in the sea. Maybe she's a swinger when she said she's not taken or single.

It's like this: she's talking to someone else; she wants to get together with him; he hasn't asked...

next

You should of never have asked her 3 times, once was enough.. When she saw that you asked her 2nd, and 3rd time she knew she could string you along and tell you whatever she wanted to..If it was me i would of asked her and told her when i wanted to see her, if she would say she cant on that day i would offer an alternative or would of asked her then what day would be good?.. If she doesnt agree, well then there is your answer..Its pretty simple if a girl likes you, she WILL make the effort in agreeing on a day to chill that is good for both of you

PS: I dont know how old you are but dont put your eggs in one basket , if you are just dating someone make sure you have couple other girls you are also talking to, that way if one flakes, you can call up the other and go on a date with her. I have seen tons of my friends get burned because they were stuck on one girl without any other options, which is already a set up for failure....But if you really really like her, next time you see her ignore her like she doesnt even exist, and if she tries to talk to you, walk away, she will know whats up..Dont be surprised IF THEN SHE asks YOU out..But as others said dont waste your time, i wouldnt... Good luck

If you REALLY like her... go for it. But, stop and think, WHAT do you like about her.
What it meant was "I'm not 'serious' with anyone right now" << who cares about the details.

Say "ok ____, I think you're hot and sexy, I want to take you out... what'dya say?"

J/k!... really say " Hey____, I've asked you out a few times but we've never actually had the chance to hang out, how about I take you out for ice cream (dinner... wtvr) this week"? then say "I'm really busy but I think I could fit it in my schedule" Then choose a date and pretend your writing it down so it's a done deal!

tip: take charge. don't ask "ok... but when?... ...or where?" instead say... "this day at this time seems to work for me, does that work for you?" then if it doesn't choose another until you fit!

p.s- don't worry about having asked her out 3 times, or about who she's "seeing"... be confident, and don't take this too serious, have fun, become her good friend ... and then go from there

good luck.