Should I tell my partner?

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If you have DACA, you're here legally (sort of) so it shouldn't be an issue. Only you can decide whether it's worth telling him now, but people can turn into assholes too. I told a couple of people when I first met them even and I've waited and told people in a few months. I've also never told certain people.

Don't be so naive. Americans turn against each other on a daily basis there is no such thing as "the one". It is not worth jeopardizing your life if this "love" doesn't pan out.

2 weeks....? If it's been two weeks and you feel he's the one? You're not feeling desperate or anything right?

I'd wait it out. Just from a friend experience that got me to be quiet about it. He and his girl broke up and ended on some real bad terms. He had told her everything well that person at first chance she got told their circle of friends his DACA and how he came here illegally.


Yeah there are really nasty people like that. Just be sure he isn't a jerk

2 weeks? Or did you mean 2 years??! No, no, you don't have anything to tell him right now. Two weeks is nothing.

It's irrelevant. If he's the one then there will be plenty of time to tell him and he'll be okay with it once you do.

If he's the one, why the hurry/the insecurity. Just wait.

I agree with the other posters. Patience is a must when it comes to relationships! As far as the DACA thing goes, I would disclose that probably six months into the relationship.

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Not really, but you just need to get to his head that you are NOT dating him in hopes of marrying him and adjusting your status. You honestly do think this is the guy right? If he then it will work out. Unless of course he doesnt think you are the right person.


Just give it a few more months and try to see what are his view with illegal immigration and his take on it. Watch for any racist discriminating comments and try to see what is his families views about it.

After a while, what you can do is slowly introduce it. Be like "Hey what do you think of immigration policies?" to "Hey what do you think of Obamas & USCIS DACA Program?" or "So whats your take on the Dream Act?" You know, slowly bring the topic into discussion.