Serious Relationships... - Page 7

Originally Posted by dreamofgold

I suggest to not contact him anymore... What you are doing is detrimental to your sanity. Obviously, he is rebounding another girl already?

It's hard not to think about him. But talking/texting him is not doing you any good, it just incites more pain and thoughts.

Focus on something else, get a new hobby, etc.... But whatever you do, do not do a rebound. Rebounds do not last and it is not fair to the other person, since you are not ready for a new relationship.

Let time heal.

Originally Posted by Lunafiv

I don't know I'm confused, frustrated. We still love each other (I think he still loves me?). But he's met someone. We've talked. I told him I was sorry about everything I had done (I was very careful because I didn't want to sound like I was begging him to take me back) We talked, and he said he was happy to hear everything I had to say, but said he still needed time to process everything I said. This girl likes him, so I'm gonna feel really bad this weekend because he might hang out with her. I don't even want to think about it.

I've thought about a rebound, but I don't really like anybody besides him.

Originally Posted by Pianoswithoutfaith

SK18 is always ready for you to rebound on him

Originally Posted by SK18

He has met someone apparently in two days after the breakup of a relationship of 4 years, and this doesn't come up as a red flag to you? If he really has moved on this fast, he didn't have that much invested in you. Which is good, you can use this to really move forward.

Well, whatever you do, just be honest about it to him. No lies or games, just put your ego on the side for now. I still don't understand why you guys broke up? 'Fighting too much' is not really grounds to breakup unless each fight isn't constructive and digs a bigger hole. Unless one of you started hating the other, and gave up on the relationship. Can you analyze what made you break up? Do you want to get back with him? Why?

Don't get hung up too much on 'he was my best friend, he was a good guy, I love him'. I understand that. We've all been there. Most of my exes were amazing people and they usually were my best friend, but that didn't mean I have to be with them.

Well, the thing is that we had broken up months ago, but we had gotten back together (I think?) we still ALWAYS acted as a couple. But I can't really say we were still a couple. We talked about looking for new partners, but I never did anything about it. One day he met someone (we had been fighting) and they started talking/texting. When I confronted him about it asking him what he was trying to do, etc, he said that we had broken up and that we were just friends and that he didn't want to lose me but that he was tired of all the fighting (which I understand).

So I think he feels resentment towards me maybe still loves me, but I feel like he's excited about the idea of moving on.

I created this thread after I told him there was no way I could hang out with him knowing he was talking/hanging out with another girl. I told him it wasn't fair for my sanity. And he said, "I will always be here for you" he didn't say he'd stop talking to this girl. The problem is that they have friends in common and also some work related stuff...

Lol, hush, I'm trying to help her.

Originally Posted by Lunafiv

Guys, my posts have become too dramatic... Enough about me, let me hear about some of your experiences!!

Originally Posted by Pianoswithoutfaith

Hey LunaFiv how are you?

Originally Posted by Lunafiv

I wanna hear about Piano's and Butters' feelings!!! Did you guys ever talk on the phone?