What would you do if... - Page 2

+1. it doesnt matter where or how, really. as long as the message is sent.

I wouldnt.


1. Relationships are delicate and private, let him find out on his own, no need for a 3rd party.
2. If for some reason they forgive each other/ your friend doesnt believe you, and they end up together anyway, thats gonna put a strain on your friendship, and it wouldnt be the same between you 2.

Bottom line: Its none of your business.

If it were up to me I would not hesitate to tell my friend. The way I would tell him/her is by inviting them to my house or out to eat. That way my friend can realize that I am not lying; because I'll be paying for the food. I hope i never have to do that though..

I think you should tell her. She deserves to know. She'll thank you for it. But make sure you have some solid proof or something. I'd set up a situation where she can see for herself that the guy's a cheater.

what makes you think it is a "she"?

Stay out of it people come and go all the time.

He, she, it, whatever the sex is, just tell the person who's being cheated on.

Well when he/she finds out they're being cheated on:
1. If you didn't tell, you will be hated
2. If you told, it was none of your business
I think it's a lose/lose

I think that the question ends up being how good of a friend we are talking about. I would probably look the other way if the person is just a friend and we generally do not talk alot, it is not really my business and telling that person that is just a normal friend would be awkward, not to mention that the news might not be taken well as he might end up trusting his/her partner more over just a normal friend.
I would tell the person if he is a good friend, since I would be able to figure out some sort of strategy about how to give him/her the news, and I would prefer that good friend to not get hurt by someone that is clearly not committed to the relationship and is just dragging him along.

Since Im supposedly not close 2 this friend, Ill let 'em know to keep there man/chic in check & give them the scoops on what happen. That's a given answer here, cuzz im a female.. LoL.. we're so self-righteous.. LoL.. *Jokes*