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I'm a guy, so things are a little different for us. Best advice I can give is be independent of that person you are dating. Don't cling on his/her every move to make yours, as this will show him/her you are interested in the relationship for that person, not for what they can do for you. In the end they'll realize you are not out to take advantage of them.

I had car troubles one summer and initially refused to get rides from 2 girls I happened to see at the time. I'm not saying I didn't wish for the rides, but had to take the bus a few times to let them know I wasn't looking for favors. I may have come off as a prideful jerk at times, but not one looking to milk their priviledged status.

Now as far as keeping that relationship going, you'll have to ask someone else.
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Hey guys....

In the past, I've always hold of on dating someone because I was scared to get close to them and have them find out about my situation. Also, I get insecure when I tell them that I don't drive and if they can pick me up on dates instead. Some guys now gets turned-off when they see that I don't have a job, no car, and still living with families in my 20s because it gives them the impression that I have no goals. I'm a girl, so it shouldn't be weird to be driven around but I live in a place where theres almost no public transportation so they still ask questions. Anyway, any advice? I met someone I really like and I was hoping to get an opinion from you.

thanks in advance.
Im in the same exact situation you are. I not only keep guys from getting close, but people too. At this point Im tired of how my life is going and dont care anymore. Live! Do you go to school? Cuz at least you have that. I was talking to this guy who I told that i dont go to school, no job, and live at home with my parents, and he told me that when he gets a wife he wants someone to help him out. He kept calling me, and every time I see him he wants to talk to me. He even came to my house to eat dinner. But the fear of him knowing my status freaked me out. I almost wanted to tell him I was a lesbian (no offense to anyone) and have thought of doing that, but I didn't think anyone would believe me.
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Congrats on the wedding dreamy!!
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Congrats on the wedding dreamy!!
HUH?!?!?!!
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HUH?!?!?!!
Hmmm....too complicated for ya?
I'll reword it.

Congratulations. I hope your wedding turned out exactly the way you dreamed it would, dreamy14!!
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Hey guys....

In the past, I've always hold of on dating someone because I was scared to get close to them and have them find out about my situation. Also, I get insecure when I tell them that I don't drive and if they can pick me up on dates instead. Some guys now gets turned-off when they see that I don't have a job, no car, and still living with families in my 20s because it gives them the impression that I have no goals. I'm a girl, so it shouldn't be weird to be driven around but I live in a place where theres almost no public transportation so they still ask questions. Anyway, any advice? I met someone I really like and I was hoping to get an opinion from you.

thanks in advance.
I think you should just be honest from the beginning. Guys make up their mind pretty quickly whether you're the one or not, so if you are the one for him, then he won't run away when you tell him the truth. On the other hand, if you aren't the one, and he happens to be a really mean person (which none of my exes have been so far) then he might call ICE... which is, I guess, any DREAMer's biggest fear.

Anyway, I have a friend who has a GF who is an international student. Her visa runs out soon and he didn't want her to leave so he proposed. I guess this is like a best case scenario kind of thing?
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