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So I went to this Christmas dinner last night and met this really really nice chick, we didn't really talk much. We basically spent the entire night looking and smiling at each other. Without me knowing my step mom went up to her and told her I was single and I liked her. Long story short I added her on facebook, the problem is I don't know where to go from here I don't know what to say. All am thinking about is my status.... Like she deserves better than me... I just don't know what to do. Should I try and talk to her... Idk...?

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So I started talking to this chick, really really nice chick. Without me bringing it up she asked me about my past and all that (Didn't mention anything about my status yet) her parents is from my birth country. I asked her out, she said yes. We are going to see a movie, just trying to figure out the day. I can sense shes looking for me to lead the way relationship wise, so I guess shes looking for me to pick her up for the date and for obvious reasons I can't. I live in Florida and you literally need a car to get around. Should I just tell her about my status before the date...? I really don't know what to do....
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o I came out to this girl, I didn't exactly went into details. But she just said "alright" We planned on going to the movies before I told her, but I have not heard from her since.
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Worst day of 2012 so far, before I came out to this girl. We had made plans to go to the movies and stuff, having good conversations. Since I told her about my status, I have been having a hard time getting hold of her and when I did get a hold of her online the conversation would basically be "hi" and "bye" Last night she posted a status update on facebook about some fair coming to town and this guy asked her if she would go with him and also to be his valentine, She said yes. I just feel like digging a hole and burying my fucking self. I just feel like shit... I can't even think straight right now.. I don't think I will ever tell around person again

So since all this, I have just been working and minding my own business. A couple of days ago I got a email and it was from her, she was giving me her cell phone number. We were talking online and through skype before because she was having problems with her cell phone so I didn't have her number back then. I decided to text her today, we text back and forth for a little about random shit, then she asked when are we going to hang out. We had made plans before to go the movies, it just didn't happen. I really don't know what to make of all this or where to go from here.... Should I just squash it with her. I don't have a car, she would have to pick me up or I would have to meet her there... I just don't know what to do, advice please!!??
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So since all this, I have just been working and minding my own business. A couple of days ago I got a email and it was from her, she was giving me her cell phone number. We were talking online and through skype before because she was having problems with her cell phone so I didn't have her number back then. I decided to text her today, we text back and forth for a little about random shit, then she asked when are we going to hang out. We had made plans before to go the movies, it just didn't happen. I really don't know what to make of all this or where to go from here.... Should I just squash it with her. I don't have a car, she would have to pick me up or I would have to meet her there... I just don't know what to do, advice please!!??
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ok. now the ball is in your court. you should not seem desperate. show her that you are like whatever towards her. woman love attention if you don't give them attention they come back to you. tell her to go to the mall you can meet her there watch a movie eat something at the food court something simple yet fun. and then don't call her for some time like a week or so. watch she will be texting you.
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see relationships are like a seed. you plant the seed, you nurture the seed, you watch the seed grow and then you fuck the seed.
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see relationships are like a seed. you plant the seed, you nurture the seed, you watch the seed grow and then you fuck the seed.
lol...i like the pie version better.
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So since all this, I have just been working and minding my own business. A couple of days ago I got a email and it was from her, she was giving me her cell phone number. We were talking online and through skype before because she was having problems with her cell phone so I didn't have her number back then. I decided to text her today, we text back and forth for a little about random shit, then she asked when are we going to hang out. We had made plans before to go the movies, it just didn't happen. I really don't know what to make of all this or where to go from here.... Should I just squash it with her. I don't have a car, she would have to pick me up or I would have to meet her there... I just don't know what to do, advice please!!??
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Without trying to digress to much from the basis of this thread I'll try to share my experience. I have always been really shy, and super quiet. Obviously a lot of self esteem issues and lack of confidence stems from being so reserved. I truly didn't consider my status as a reason for my anti-social behavior until my senior year of high school when I made a group of friends that changed me a lot. I changed in some aspects for the better, but being a devout Catholic a lot of my actions were later regretted.

So now before I continue that tangent forever I'll explain my dating life. I have gotten really lucky with girls. like the ratio of beautiful to how much effort I had to put into making them like me is astounding, beauty at 10 to .050 effort. Not to brag, but my very first girlfriend won the senior award for class beauty, and she asked me out basically my sophmore year in high school. That relationship never flourished because of my lack of experience and my dad not being around I had no one to ask for advice (I was that reserved I didn't tell anyone I had a girlfriend). Now we are bestfriends, I truly think if I had played my cards right with her I would be in the perfect relationship right now.

So that brings me to my first serious relationship, and my experience with telling her my status. This girl another babe although not as pretty as the first still super beautiful. Nowadays she has three guys a day posting on her wall for dates. Again she made the first move although now I knew what to do so I took the initiative and planned a date. I was her first boyfriend so she had no wall I had to break through to make her know I'm a genuine guy. After 3 weeks she told me she loved me, it was weird for me, but it grew on me so I thought that is what it was, "love". After another two weeks I was in her bed while we watched a movie and she whispered in my ear "I'll do anything you want." Sounds like a fantasy right? Well me being a young Catholic I said "all I want is for you to love me forever." Later on I found out she was referring to sex, which had not even crossed my mind, I was such a prude. So after a few months it all got really serious and some how I broke down and told her my secret. I trusted her more than anyone I had ever met at that point. She offered to tell her mom and find me legal help, she was naive, and didn't understand it wouldn't help. I yelled at her and told her to never tell anyone. To this day I'm sure she hasn't told a soul. The relationship ended bitterly later on because of me. I just thought we were a bad match. She didn't. So after 2 years I offered her my friendship reluctantly she accepted. I know she hates me still, but its nice to know she still kept my secret. She is the last person I've told.

MY ADVICE: So even if you didn't read all that, I suggest you play it by ear especially if you are hiding it as best as you can like me. In this world there are few people we can trust, but if you don't trust anyone you'll miss out on love. From an experienced anti-social noob don't waste your time in the shadows, real friends are more important than any success we may achieve. When I die my life will not be measured by my length of days, my achievements, or my ideas, but by how many friends gather to say goodbye.
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