Just found out my wife cheated - Page 2

No green card. She's still wants to go through the process even if I decide not to forgive her.

Damn bruh tough situation you are in. If I were you I would start focusing on myself more, make myself a better person despite our current situation. Buy a home gym device and make working out a hobby. Remember she's not the only girl in the world. You have to change your mentality to the abundance meaning she's not the only one that's out there. There's no such thing as the one.. Trust me. You are lucky she is still willing to help you. I say initiate a no contact with her or LIMIT it to the minimum, Stop focusing on her and make her wonder what you are doing (don't give out details) she'll go crazy about you. Be strong bruh, I know how it feels, and trust me I recovered and made myself a better person.

Yes it FUCKING is!

If its not, then tear it up and go back already.

Yes, I am being harsh. However, you have something many need, yet want to throw it away just because your "feelings" got hurt.

Be a rational person.

I don't have my green card. We were about to send out the petition. If I want to get my green card I have to live with her until I receive it, that'll be hard. I was contemplating if all the humiliation is worth the green card. Thanks for the feedback I appreciate it and I'm not offended by it. I just want to throw this out there; to all those that say all men are the same, well guess what that is NOT true. If you find someone special don't f*ck it up!

So you think I should go through with it and once I get my green card bounce?

i'd hate to be flippant or curt in these inordinately dire circumstances afflicting you, BUT get your green card, homeboy. you can cry later, cut yourself, idc, just get your eff'n green card.

Stick it through. At least till you get your green card.

I think I am inclining for that. My parents have invested about 4 grand for all the paperwork and process.

yea i agree with Laker24x.
leave her bro'! if she can do it to you in the midst of your struggle what makes you think she wont do it again in later time of your marriage? Marriage is a big big step bro' there's a lot of challenges that comes with it. And i doubt that she'll stick by your side when those challenges starts coming in. She'll use the same horseshit of an excuse to cheat on you.

and oh bro' dont fall for that bs she's feeding you. The "ill help you fix your situation by marrying you" type of bullshit.
because she can use that against YOU in the future.

wuuuuuuuurd brahhhh! mahalo!

I'm.married. And 20 years old. Shit is NOT easy!!!!