Do you think you can be friends with someone you dated - Page 2

No its not healthy. Its also disrespectful to your current partner to be even talking to your exes.

Exactly! More-so because in our friendship right now, I do more for her than she does for me. I know it shouldn't just depend on that but relationships should be mutually beneficial.

It depends on how you ended things. If both of you just weren't feeling it and called it quits peacefully sure why not. Basically if someone went ape shit in the end no way. You'll keep thinking him or her is a bitch, in the back of your head, every time you see them.

It was one-sided. I'm not trying to be spiteful, I'm helping her with deferred action. I just don't think it's healthy and it's in no way personal

So cute when you think it's that easy. Lol

It's a side-effect of being a Dreamer!!! lol

Actually, I don't care for maintaining relationships with even our mutual friends. I'm just looking to cut ties right now, as anti-social, as that may sound.

You got worry about yourself man. You're not a couple anymore. Do what works for you and forget about the rest.

I'll try. I've helped her with DA and even carpooling but I didn't have to and I shouldn't be putting myself out there.

I'm just give her what she needs to finish DA and she can worry about the driving herself.

Why are you giving her a ride?

She asked me if I would, we go to the same school and we start at the same hour.
She doesnt drive and she used to take the bus but the bus takes over an hour.