Relationship Problems - Page 10

Well sucks for you to each their own. I'm enjoying my life 👍🏻

But you did file for it already right??? I believe that a little distance for now will help. You guys will miss each other so much that you will start yearning for each other. My fiance and I lived in different states. When I visit him, we couldn't get enough of each other. When I'm about to go back home, I don't want to leave because I know I will miss him very much. It is hard but in my opinion a little distance makes you miss each other more.

You did say you still love your wife but you're just not sexually attracted with her. So channel that love and think about her. Think about what would happen to you if you don't see her for couple of days or weeks or months. Will you miss her or will you not? Will that make you happy or not?

Think for a second. Do you see yourself with another woman besides her? Do you see yourself loving another woman besides her? Do you really love her enough to make this marriage work? If so, are you guys on the same page?

If you both truly love each other, both party will make great efforts to try and make it work. If both parties cannot compromise and make an effort, then the relationship will never work and it is doom to fall apart.

Thank you for the kind words.

I will try and work things out. And I agree being apart is helping. I will keep you guys updated

Have you tried exercising with her and dieting with her ?

Yes I did. Years ago. Not worth it.

2nd night at parents house.

I feel for ya reading all your posts. I think you're getting yourself into trouble and hardship by leaving the wife now. You should try to save the relationship and get back together. Maybe do couples counseling or something. 8 years is a long time to be with someone and you have history. Obviously what ruined your relationship was the moving in together after getting married. It's totally different when you live with someone versus just dating them. Living with anyone is difficult because you have the different habits and things to get used to and you see the person more. It's a killer and little annoyances become major deal breakers. I think for your sake and the fact that you have so much invested in the relationship, you should give it a final try. Considering what's on the line with your AOS and all that trouble with cancelling and not knowing what's going to happen with future cases. Just my 2 cents. Good luck.

My gf moved in like a month after we met each other and it's been amazing, we cook watch tv and fuck every chance we get.

After a week at my parents, I am moving back with my wife and try things out.

This shit is getting ridiculous

She is on my ass about everything