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I'm afraid to date because of this. I don't feel like being undocumented justifies my short comings, because a lot of undocumented people are much more successful than me. I also have a lot of problems that have stemmed from my upbringing and situation and family history that make me kind of a depressive nut, and then adding undocumented to it probably doesn't look very appealing to people who want a confident girl with goals. If I ever were to date I would probably come right out with it, it's a huge part of who I am and I am not ashamed anymore because it's not my fault.
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i told my fiance and she is supportive at times, her family used to be undocumented but now theyre all citizens and forgot where they came from.....i love her but man oh man can it get rough.....her having to drive, me making little money and at times she has told me to quit going to school and get another job lol but she always takes it back its a sticky situation i have a son with her and i love them both to pieces but if i knew it would be as difficult as this being undocumented and trying to have a family i would just wait its stressful and for lack of a better word...depressing ..... i have told 2 of my past girlfriends i was undocumented and they all took it well and to this day when i see them they wish me luck ! so guys tell ur girls after a month or so , just find out where they stand on the issue cuz the last thing u want is a girl telling ur business to everyone!
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i told my fiance and she is supportive at times, her family used to be undocumented but now theyre all citizens and forgot where they came from.....i love her but man oh man can it get rough.....her having to drive, me making little money and at times she has told me to quit going to school and get another job lol but she always takes it back its a sticky situation i have a son with her and i love them both to pieces but if i knew it would be as difficult as this being undocumented and trying to have a family i would just wait its stressful and for lack of a better word...depressing ..... i have told 2 of my past girlfriends i was undocumented and they all took it well and to this day when i see them they wish me luck ! so guys tell ur girls after a month or so , just find out where they stand on the issue cuz the last thing u want is a girl telling ur business to everyone!
Considering that you have a son with her and all, why don't you two just get married? How long has she been your fiance? It will make life easier for you, your son and everyone else involved.
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ima wetback how the fuck am i gona pull these goldiggin american bitches. better hit up the titty bar....
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ima wetback how the fuck am i gona pull these goldiggin american bitches. better hit up the titty bar....
My thoughts exactly.
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After I had sex with the dude, I'd tell him about a few hours or days later.
+1, but change dude to girl
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Considering that you have a son with her and all, why don't you two just get married? How long has she been your fiance? It will make life easier for you, your son and everyone else involved.


marriage is not that easy.....say i get married to her then ok i will have to leave the country and get my "greencard' in juarez in mexico or wherever they send me out of the country then they hit me with the 10 year ban and im stuck in mexico, ive spoken to lawyers and not even having a child will let me fix my status without leaving the country....sticky situation!!
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They will not make you leave Within 6months you will recieve a 2 year Temporary Green Card, after 2 years you will have to file a new application for a 10 year green card thats it. You will get everything within the USA without leaving. If you are afraid, than simply get a lawyer who will go with you to the interview, and file your papers.
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They will not make you leave Within 6months you will recieve a 2 year Temporary Green Card, after 2 years you will have to file a new application for a 10 year green card thats it. You will get everything within the USA without leaving. If you are afraid, than simply get a lawyer who will go with you to the interview, and file your papers.
even if you are ewi?
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Not to be rude or anything, but some of you guys are way into the whole "i feel like im a burden type, so no ones going to want me", the problem isnt that you're undocumented, the problem is your lack of a backbone. I ALWAYS tell a girl that I'm going to potentially date, or even a friend that I'm undocumented, it's better to always be truthful even with employers because let's face it, if you're in a relationship and you continuously have to lie about why you can't find a job, or why you can't even drive then you're only selling the person you're with short. I do drive, but not on freeways (due to terrible eyesight and lack of funds to go an optometrist), but you have to make it clear to girls because let's face it girls get lied to an constant basis more than guys and the point is refreshing to be truthful and to stand up and see the qualities in yourself. Yeah you may not have a job, but many of us are aspiring to become more than $9/an hour wherehouse worker, most of us go to school and want more out of lives. C'mmon man, if the chick doesnt like you cuz you dont have papers than the problem isn't you, it's her, but you also gotta man/woman up and do you.
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