Undocumented dating - Page 5

That sucks, were you guys in a relationship already or not yet?

wtf dude for realz?? It's just another bitch...get over it. Wut u need to do is go hog-riding...it'll make you feel better, and if it doesn't...well at least u banged a fatty

Don't think that way... It was just ONE person who responded like a moron. I'm sure there are girls who won't do that to you. I think you're way better off without someone like that in your life. Do you honestly want to date someone who felt this way about undocumented immigrants?

If I were you, I wouldn't tell them right off the bat. I would bring up the subject of illegal immigration on the third or fourth date, and ask what their opinion is. If they're all gravy about illegal immigrants, then tell them about your status. But if they're gonna be pricks about it, just break it off to save yourself some pain.

Me and my girlfriend have been dating for almost 4 years now. However, we broke up for 2 months after dating for a year and half. I had not told her about my status when we first started dating. I've dated many girls before her and I dont think we should be telling everyone we date about our status. This is the first girl that I'm really serious about. When we first started dating I didn't tell her however, as we got serious I wanted to tell her but was afraid to see her reaction. So I didn't...
But after breaking up for 2 months when we were getting back together I told her since we were still broken up and if she didn't wanna be with me due to my situation this was the perfect time. However, she didn't care about my situation but she said I should of told her before. My suggestion tell your girlfriend when the relationship is starting to get serious. Don't tell her if you're not too sure about her or if you dont trust her.

You're such an AFC

w/oneitis

lol... been there, done that!!!

it sucks but you know what guys, don't fall in love unless the girl is extremely humble. Girls here are under a lot of pressure to hook up with someone that can offer them something.

I've had good and bad experiences with girls because of my status but one thing always lifted my spirits..........get a massage.

OMG, 100 bucks and you'll get half an hour of "stress release". Ali is right, there's a ton of chicks out there and if you pick the wrong one, you're gonna pay for it...

Trust me, a happy ending will cure what ills ya.

Play the game right. If you go all in your going to lose. Play your cards right.

Me and my girlfriend are pushing forward our relationship and getting serious.
She is from the Philippines and is here thru her parent's visas (they're both doctors).
She understands my situation yet we want to get married once we leave college. Is it possible for us to marry and still be able to ask for conjugal residency? Or will one of us have to go to the other's country until the process is terminated?

You must have convinced yourself that because she now knows that you're undocumented, then you must be less than she is. And it probably showed and she noticed, and chicks just don't feel weak fellas. I doubt it was the news of your status that changed everything. I'd say unfortunately your shot with this one was blown for now.

Make it seem like it isn't sh*t. Even though she's no longer interested in you, she's still flattered to know you're dying to be with her. Quit pursuing.

2 days ago, I came out to a female friend who's engaged to some other guy who she doesn't want to marry, but is a good match for success according to her Asian parents. When I told her, it was more like BAZAM, there it is, and if you don't know, now you know. She thanked me for trusting her, told me I wouldn't regret it, and let me know she admires me as a person with values and so forth and so on. Threw marrying me up in the air, and I told her she was bananas.

Granted, to me she's not the one and only, unique, incomparable girl that you're talking about, but we share an attraction, whereas I'm sure feeling pathetic about myself would change the way I'm seen.

What I'm saying is that being undocumented can be used as a strength.