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04-26-2022, 07:35 PM
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I am sorry you had to deal with people who treated you with anything but kindness.

If the current situation doesn't pan out, I might consider doing the same. I live in Texas so deal with lots of republicans with their preconceived notions. I just don't want to put myself in a situation where I am letting my darkest secret out to a random on first date that may not go anywhere. Not to mention the potential harm they could do if things went south to other undocumented family members or if DACA was rescinded etc.
Whatever you do, never date for status if you care about your own emotional and romantic needs.
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04-28-2022, 03:25 PM
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Whatever you do, never date for status if you care about your own emotional and romantic needs.
True, but lets be realistic: falling in love with another undocumented DREAMer is not going to benefit you in the long run, unless you leave USA for another country to re-start your life all over again.

Like, is it a weird emotion for a DREAMer to "discriminate" another DREAMer because lack of a prosperous future together may be slim.


But I am focusing on the romantic, falling in love with another undocumented person. Having "flings" or "sexual relationships" do not count lol. Honestly, the best sex partners I've had were undocumented DREAMers hehe
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I was very much embarrassed by my status for a very long time, even after I became USC. My last serious gf's parent cannot accept the fact that their daughter was dating some who used to be a dirty immigrant. So that didnt end well. I mean I was kinda wrong for hiding my shit because of my own insecurities.

I learned my lesson so when I met my wife I poured everything out on the first date. I used to tell people riding a motorcycle is the purest form of freedom anyone will ever enjoy, but I was wrong. It will be the most satisfying and terrifying thing you will ever do in one conversation. Don't wait homie, live your best life.
Damn first date? That would be too soon for me. A lot of crazy people out there.
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05-03-2022, 09:31 AM
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Damn first date? That would be too soon for me. A lot of crazy people out there.
Yeah, I went on a lot of dates back in the day.
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Lol I just broke up yesterday with the girl I was dating.
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Lol I just broke up yesterday with the girl I was dating.
That sucks, just keep your head up and don't give up on trying.
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Lol I just broke up yesterday with the girl I was dating.
Sorry to hear that. Documented or undocumented?
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Sorry to hear that. Documented or undocumented?
yes, documented. she doesn't know i'm undocumented though. most of the girls I date are documented.
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That sucks, just keep your head up and don't give up on trying.
thanks! we agreed to be "friends."
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thanks! we agreed to be "friends."
sorry to hear that, but hey, if the sex is good, not all is lost lol
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